EXPEDITION MARRIAGE: The Lost Art of Sacrifice

Remember when you were dating—those extra drives across town, late-night phone calls, sweet notes, and the way you rearranged your whole schedule just to be together?

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Chris and Jamie Bailey
Chris and Jamie Bailey
EXPEDITION MARRIAGE: The Lost Art of Sacrifice
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THE EXPEDITION MARRIAGE PODCAST

WITH HOSTS CHRIS AND JAMIE BAILEY

AUDIO PODCAST

Remember when you were dating—those extra drives across town, late-night phone calls, sweet notes, and the way you rearranged your whole schedule just to be together? Back then, sacrifice felt natural. But somewhere along the way, many couples lose that intentionality.

In this episode, we dive into what it means to rediscover sacrificial love in marriage—not as a duty, but as a reflection of Christ’s love. From everyday acts of kindness to laying down pride and preferences, we’ll unpack why sacrifice is foundational for intimacy, trust, and unity.

đź’ˇ What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why couples often lose the art of sacrifice after marriage
  • How sacrifice builds trust, intimacy, and a “we” mindset instead of “me vs. you”
  • Practical, everyday ways to reignite sacrificial love
  • The difference between being a doormat and choosing sacrificial love
  • How reflecting Christ’s love through sacrifice impacts your marriage, your children, and your witness to the world

đź“– Scripture References

  • John 15:12–13 — “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
  • Ephesians 5:25 — “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”
  • Romans 5:8 — “But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
  • John 13:35 — “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

🛠️ Practical Takeaways

  • Put your phone down and give your spouse your full attention
  • Do an errand your spouse dislikes
  • Give up a preference to honor theirs
  • Lay down pride and be the first to apologize
  • Pray together even when life is busy

Challenge for the Week: Choose one intentional act of sacrifice—big or small—for your spouse and see how it impacts your connection.


Links mentioned on the show: 

Not Your Average Man (NYAM) PODCAST https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/not-your-average-man/id1640507187

30-Day Praying for your Husband https://expeditionmarriage.org/30-day-praying-for-your-husband-challenge/

30-Day Praying for your Wife https://expeditionmarriage.org/30-day-praying-for-your-wife-challenge/

Newlywed Couples Devotional https://expeditionmarriage.org/newlywed-couples-devotional/

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About the Author

Chris and Jamie Bailey are professional Christian counselors and marriage coaches. They run their private practice as well as online ministry, Expedition Marriage, from their home in Fort Mill, SC. They are the parents of three adult daughters and two adorable grandchildren. Together they run weekend marriage retreats, offer guest speaking, one day seminars, as well as run workshops in person and online. Together they hope to encourage Christian marriages and help them thrive abundantly.