“By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” – John 13:35 (ESV)
As Christians, we are called to reflect Christ in all areas of our lives—family, workplace, friendships, church, and even among strangers. While it may be tempting to think of faith as a personal journey, Jesus modeled a faith deeply rooted in community. In fact, the true test of our commitment to Christ is seen in how well we live and interact with others, especially in everyday situations that require patience, understanding, forgiveness, and love.
Living as Christians in community isn’t simply about showing up to church or saying kind words to others. It’s about genuinely loving and building up those around us. Being at peace, forgiving others, and building unity all take intention and humility, qualities that require a heart rooted in Christ and willing to be transformed by Him.
Reflecting Love in Relationships
In John 13:35, Jesus tells His disciples, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” Love isn’t an isolated feeling; it is expressed in relationships. It’s shown in the family members we encourage, the co-workers we support, the friends we listen to, and even the difficult people we forgive. Each interaction is an opportunity to express the love of Christ.
Building Rather Than Tearing Down
Ephesians 4:29 reminds us, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” Are we building others up or contributing to negativity? It’s easy to fall into the trap of criticism or gossip, especially when faced with challenging personalities. But God calls us to use our words to encourage, uplift, and bring grace. In doing so, we become peacemakers and reflect His love.
The Role of Humility and Peace
In community life, peace and humility go hand-in-hand. Romans 12:18 instructs, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” This calls for a willingness to listen, an openness to forgive, and a desire to serve others above ourselves. True peace isn’t just the absence of conflict but the presence of God’s love, active and alive in our hearts, creating harmony.
Living Out Our Call
Ultimately, our calling as Christians is to live out a life that mirrors Christ’s love and grace in every area. Being a true follower of Christ means being a presence of love, peace, and encouragement in every interaction. We are building His Kingdom not only by what we do but by how we do it—within the context of relationships.
Prayer:
Lord, thank You for the gift of community. Help me to live out my faith in a way that honors You by building up those around me. Give me the courage to be a source of peace and encouragement in all of my relationships. Let my love for others reflect Your love and draw others closer to You. Amen.
As we step into each day, let’s remember that every encounter is an opportunity to reveal the heart of Christ and to build His Kingdom on earth, one relationship at a time.
This is an updated edition of a post originally published on Holy Beautiful Life
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