“The way we often try to love people is by fixing them…If we can just be with them and learn how to be with them…that is what transforms people!” — Chris Frost
While friendships can be a source of joy and support, they can also be complex and demanding.
From their Senior Leader on down, Chris Frost and Des Belford, Pastors at The Summit Church Edmonton, have seen a shift in relational connection and openness to each other.
We were made to connect. Deeply. Zealously. Without fear.
Listen in as the guests talk about how they have seen the Fingerprints of God transforming their own families and how the understanding of Joy, the gladness to be with, and simple tools and skills have deepened connection at their church.
In this episode, they discuss what it looks like when Elders are leading from fear. They will also talk about Elders who are motivated by love can create communities where Love, joy, and trust are fully alive.
Listen in as Dr. Warner talks about the 7-17-70 rule in community, and why know the stories of others are so crucial to feeling connected. Also, learn what his dream for community looks like in family and church.
In this episode, learn how Geoff and Cyd run together to bring wholeness and understanding to the body of Christ.
See how God’s fingerprints have transformed, strengthened and grown their marriages more that any of them could imagine!
“…Life actully got a lot better when I could see him (Geoff), as he is and go, ‘Wow! You are fantastic the way God made you…” — Cyd Holsclaw
“In the last nine months or so, the atmosphere has shifted. The change hasn’t been a physically tangible thing that can be observed, but something is shifting… I’m going to be looking for that more.” — Jane Gamroth
Listen in as they talk about how being a part of Relational Co-Labs has changed the way they relate to God, themselves, and others.
Ken and Jane Gamroth take us on there journey to relational health and give us some insights on how it has transformedand and is transforming their marriage, family, and church!
Learn how being in the Co-Lab has impacted Hannah Scaringi’s life and left the Fingerprints of God in all of her relationships!
Perhaps we fail to be honest and genuine with one another for fear of being found less-than-perfect.
Listen in as Dr. Warner talks about the importance of building joyful social connection with elders and how healthy multigenerational community and toxic, and/or secretive multigenerational communities look very much the same but produce polar opposite results.
In this episode, Hannah Scaringi shares some key personal insights that have changed how she sees and relates to God, herself, and others! Learn how understanding Joy has completely transformed her life.
Dr. Warner gives incredible insight into his own personal journey to becoming an elder in his own right. What he shares is critical for all of us to hear today.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they conclude their conversation with Varinia Lauzon. Listen in as Varinia talks about her role in creating Table and Well in Español, and how this process is transforming her life.
In the delicate dance of relationships, it’s crucial to approach each situation with grace, understanding, and a prayerful heart.
Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection.
I thought I was lonely, but in reality, I was jealous and needed to figure out what I wanted.
“I am looking to make all relationships permanent…Whatever we grow together, I want to make sure that it is something we can keep and we can use as an example for other people on how they should live their lives.” — Dr. Jim Wilder
“The kingdom of God; we know it’s here when Predators or changed into protectors. That is the key sign of transformation. ” Dr. Jim Wilder
We are created for community, for companionship, and for a love that uplifts, supports, and draws us closer to Him.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin this conversation and this series with Dr. Jim Wilder, neurotheologian, psychologist, and author whose groundbreaking work in relational brain science has shaped the way we understand community, joy, and emotional health and the reason Table and Well is doing the work they are.
Discover the importance of having God-sight for you community as elders, and how connection with Holy Spirit is essential for the health and life of your community.
In this conversation, we’ll talk about how elders can serve as relational anchors, how spiritual maturity and emotional health go hand-in-hand, and how communities can better recognize and respond to the wisdom in their midst.
Whether you’re stepping into elderhood yourself or learning to receive from those who have gone before you, this episode will inspire you to reimagine what’s possible when generations walk together in wholeness.
“(Elders remind us)…we can do this. We can stay at the table a little bit longer than we think we can… We are going to push ourselves, (to stay present) a little bit beyond what we thought we could do, and that’s enough…” ~ Amy Glaser
“The reason a lot of that stuff, (trauma), happened in our family is because we didn’t know how to build joy, how to quiet together, or keep our relational circuits on.” ~ Amy Glaser
Being mindful of what we say, especially when tired, helps prevent unnecessary hurt and maintain healthy relationships.
“Whenever two people come into a relationship or any situation, they are meeting history to history and nerves system to nerves system… only a small part of what seem to be happening in this external thing is about what is happening right now.” ~ Amy Glaser
Listen in as Marlene talks about her dream for what a growing, healthy community looks
Your friendship and empathy will go a long way in reminding her that she is not alone and that Jesus is with her.
I won’t lay my cloak at the feet of Saul, nor follow the crowd.
In this episode, Tennison and Ginelle continue their conversation with Marlene Allen and discuss how elders can prevent, protect, and even heal individuals from church hurt. Also, what does it look like to be an Elder in the Kingdom?
You need to find your prayer people. And you need to be a prayer person for others.
The transition to empowerment begins when we reject the lie that we are perpetual victims.
Elders who are deeply rooted, know who they are, and can see those around them through the eyes of heaven are invaluable in their community.
Resolve to live, and learn to love, every purposeful season in your life right now.
God will position people to be with us in the conflict to let us know we are not alone.
As elders also share stories of how it is for us to act, they create safety and security for the community at large.
Elders also fill the holes in the community that arise because of the immaturity that is present.
In Loving Samaritans, pastor Terry Crist demonstrates how it’s possible to live a life of radical inclusivity without compromising one’s beliefs or the truth of the Gospel.
By not sticking to my boundaries, I let the nonacceptance affect me significantly.
It’s okay to step away from people who are bad for your mental and spiritual health.
“Elders by definition have a really well developed right brain skill set…they know how to model a secure attachment,…attune to others emotions even if they don’t agree with what happened,…very good at seeing the gold in a person…” — Michel Hendricks
Imagine writing love letters to the man in the future whom you will one day marry but have yet to meet. Cally talks about embracing singleness, waiting for God’s best, and celebrating God’s plans for you right now.
“Gentle Protectors are willing to share in the pain that they create…Predators want to put their pain on you so they don’t feel any of it.” — Jen Coursey
Like so many of us, Bible study mentor Sarah Frazer found herself saying, “God, this wasn’t part of the plan. I didn’t sign up for this.”
Joy is still possible depending on how deeply connected to God we feel and how deeply connected to others we feel.
In this episode, they discuss what it looks like when Elders are leading from fear. They will also talk about Elders who are motivated by love can create communities where Love, joy, and trust are fully alive.
In the face of unthinkable circumstances, Noree Bowbeer’s uncommon courage gave the gift of life to her son, Christian Johnson.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin a conversation with Chris and Jen Coursey, Authors and founders Thrive Today. Listen in as they talk about their personal journey into the elder stage.
Is unbridled freedom dividing America?
In this episode, they discuss what it looks like when Elders are leading from fear. They will also talk about Elders who are motivated by love can create communities where Love, joy, and trust are fully alive.
Stephanie Rousselle’s hope-filled story as a former atheist to the founder of Gospel Spice Ministries is unforgettable. She helps us to start this year by trusting the goodness of God.
Listen in as Dr. Warner talks about the 7-17-70 rule in community, and why know the stories of others are so crucial to feeling connected. Also, learn what his dream for community looks like in family and church.
Do you feel too busy to pray? Then you’re invited to find REST in God’s loving presence. Today’s guest, Asheritah Ciuciu, offers you a respite from your spiritual to-do list in her book, Prayers of Rest: 365 Prompts to Hear God’s Voice.
Listen in as Dr. Warner talks about the importance of building joyful social connection with elders and how healthy multigenerational community and toxic, and/or secretive multigenerational communities look very much the same but produce polar opposite results.
How do we exchange hurt for hope? As a recovered drug addict, stage-four cancer survivor, and former widow, Sheryl fought anxiety, depression, and despair for years before understanding her identity in Christ.
Being a true follower of Christ means being a presence of love, peace, and encouragement in every interaction.
Dr. Warner gives incredible insight into his own personal journey to becoming an elder in his own right. What he shares is critical for all of us to hear today.
Alisa Childers helps us understand progressive Christianity, deconstruction, and the non-negotiables of faith in Jesus Christ.
“I am looking to make all relationships permanent…Whatever we grow together, I want to make sure that it is something we can keep and we can use as an example for other people on how they should live their lives.” — Dr. Jim Wilder
Cancer touches everyone and yet churches are often under-equipped. How can cancer be a blessing? How do we best minister to cancer patients and caregivers?
Life and healing come through honest communication with the right person in the right way at the right time.
“The kingdom of God; we know it’s here when Predators or changed into protectors. That is the key sign of transformation. ” Dr. Jim Wilder
Today’s episode offers encouragement to any woman praying about a call to ministry.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin this conversation and this series with Dr. Jim Wilder, neurotheologian, psychologist, and author whose groundbreaking work in relational brain science has shaped the way we understand community, joy, and emotional health and the reason Table and Well is doing the work they are.
Heated arguments between keyboard warriors, “unfriending” family or friends who believe differently than us, and wars on the international stage—our world is full of conflict. Dr. Oletha Barnett believes God created diversity far beyond race and that He designed diversity, which can often lead to conflict, to grow us, and give us opportunities to practice biblical principles. Through that, we can find unity.
In this episode, they explore what happens when people are placed into the position of elder before they are mature enough to be there. When you look across the landscape of the Christian world, you see this everywhere.
Episode #199 – Today’s episode is a much-needed candid conversation for anyone who is tired of hustling and never feeling enough, and longing to truly embrace grace. Blake helps us know how to take a bold stand for Christ in today’s contentious culture.
Elders need to have a community to belong to and be recognized by that community. There is a fundamental need for elders.
If you want to thrive instead of strive in your marriage, this episode is for you! Christa Hardin, MA, is a relationship expert, author, and podcast host. We talk about practical ways we can better understand and support each other.
God wants you to surround yourself with those who lift you up, help you flourish, and move you forward.
The Elder stage of Maturity is the most crucial and least reached stage of maturity. Without True Elders in our community, we fail to know who we are and how it is for us, as humans, to act.
We talk about this unique science fiction-romance inspired by the book of Job and Brock’s own story of faith, hope in grief, and staying true to your calling.
God’s desire for us is to be welcoming both in our hearts and our homes.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their journey through the Parent stage.
Are you concerned about raising children and grandchildren in today’s cultural climate? How can prayer release heaven on earth? Sharon Jaynes helps us know how to use the words of Scripture to pray powerfully and purposefully over our children.
You will know you are at the parent stage when you can sacrificially care for your children or the next generation without resenting the sacrifice with joy or expecting to receive anything for your efforts.
This episode is a celebration and heartfelt farewell as we wrap up the Make Life Matter podcast.
In this episode, listen in as Tennison and Ginelle dig deep into the parent stage tasks that need to be completed by all in this stage to be fully mature. There is work that we must do on this journey to maturity. Continue the Journey!
Do you ever struggle to believe in God’s promises, especially when there seems to be a delay? Shannon Popkin invites us to be shaped by God’s promises in the waiting in Shaped by God’s Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith?
Discover the needs that every parent will need from their community to be fully mature in this stage. Just like every stage, you fully mature over time.
In this day, where loneliness is at an all-time high, we need to rediscover the power of cheering.
In The Loudest Roar, you’ll marvel at the power, majesty, and authority of our Lord Jesus and learn how to stand in the unshakable victory He’s already won for you.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they conclude the Adult stage of maturity and look at some of the obvious holes that you will see in adults who have not fully matured in this stage. Learn the importance of community and the benefits it brings as you grow into a mature adult!
Edie Melson shows you how to turn to God for help with Soul Care When the Nest is Empty.
We have to put a bit of effort into how we show up as friends if we want to live deeply connected lives.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue to unpack the Adult stage of maturity. In this episode, they will lean into the Adult stage needs and tasks in order to be fully mature in this stage of maturity.
When desperation strikes, is it possible to exchange panicked pleas for powerful peace? Author Rachel Wojo answers this question in her new book, Desperate Prayers: Embracing the Power of Prayer in Life’s Darkest Moments.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin the next stage of maturity— the Adult Maturity Stage. Listen in as they unpack the early years this stage and the three most important this to “young adults”; Relationship, Power and Truth.
How do we stop the cycle of comparison, especially for teenage girls? Lee Nienhaus, co-author of Comparison Girl, helps us identify the lies holding us hostage to comparison and live in freedom.
Join Tennison and Ginelle as they conclude the Child stage of maturity. Listen in as they unpack the personal and community tasks and needs you can engage in that will help you and others fill any gaps you or others may have in this stage of maturity.
While it’s important to be uncompromising when we communicate the truth, Scripture also calls us to speak the truth with love. But in a world that seems as hostile as ever, how do we do that?
Listen in as they discuss the obvious maturity gaps you will see in adults who are not fully mature in this stage, what Pseudo maturity looks like and its effect on adults who operated in this place as children.
Julie helps us to build trust in God, understand the power of prayer, and find hope even in despair.
