We’ve all been there—faced with a big decision that could be life-changing, but instead of taking action, we procrastinate. We waffle back and forth, never making a choice. When this happens too often, we end up missing opportunities or find that we’re living our life based on someone else’s decisions.
When it comes to making decisions, it’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of indecision and procrastination. The good news is that with a little effort and the right mindset, you can start thinking through decisions in a way that helps you overcome procrastination and move forward with confidence, all while seeking God’s guidance.
Decision-Making: A Process Guided by Faith
Remember, decision-making is a process, not just a one-time event. Start by breaking down decisions into smaller, more manageable steps. For example, instead of deciding whether to change jobs all at once, begin by making a list of pros and cons, researching different job opportunities, and talking to people in your network. Seek God’s wisdom in each step, praying for clarity and direction as you move forward.
Reframe Your Thinking with a God-Centered Perspective
Reframe your thinking by viewing decisions as opportunities for growth and learning, rather than as overwhelming or scary. This shift in perspective can help you approach decision-making with more positivity and confidence. Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) reminds us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Set Deadlines and Celebrate Progress
Set deadlines for yourself to counteract procrastination. When you have a specific date or time in mind for making a decision, you’re less likely to put it off. Celebrate your progress and acknowledge your efforts when you make a decision, thanking God for His guidance and provision.
Weigh the Consequences with Prayer and Reflection
Before making a decision, consider the potential consequences. What will happen if you choose one option over another? Write down your options and the pros and cons of each. This helps you see things more clearly and make a more informed choice. Here’s an example:
Let’s say you’re trying to decide whether to go on a road trip with your friends or stay home and catch up on some work. You write down the pros and cons of each option to help you make a decision.
Option 1: Go on the road trip with your friends.
Pros:
- Spend quality time with your friends.
- Get a break from work and daily routine.
- Create new memories.
- Relax and recharge.
Cons:
- Fall behind on work.
- Spend money on the trip.
- Miss out on work opportunities.
Option 2: Stay home and catch up on work.
Pros:
- Get ahead on work.
- Stay on top of work opportunities.
Cons:
- Miss out on quality time with your friends.
- Get stuck in a daily routine.
- Risk burnout from excessive work.
By weighing the pros and cons, you can make an informed decision that aligns with your priorities and goals, while seeking God’s direction through prayer and reflection.
Seek Advice and Support from Your Faith Community
If you’re struggling to decide, don’t hesitate to talk to people you trust and respect. Ask friends, family members, or coworkers for their opinion. They may have valuable insights that can help you make a better decision. Proverbs 15:22 (NIV) says, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”
If decision-making is a chronic problem, consider working with a coach or mentor who can help you navigate decision-making and overcome procrastination. Look for someone who shares your faith and can provide godly wisdom.
Embrace the Power of One Change
By overcoming procrastination, the decision-making process becomes quicker and more effective. By taking small steps, reframing your thinking, seeking out support, and setting deadlines, you’ll be able to make decisions with greater ease and move forward with confidence, knowing that God is guiding you every step of the way.
This is an updated edition of a post originally published on Living Forward.
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