Love is . . .
Developed in times of difficulty.

Infatuation is . . .
Spoiled in times of difficulty.

Love is . . .
Empowered by what is good and true.

Infatuation is . . .
Fueled by good times.

Love is . . .
A result of intentional and sacrificial choices that eventually bloom into feelings.

Infatuation is . . .
Quickly ignited by feelings and images—that extinguish just as quickly.

Love is . . .
Persevering no matter what trouble comes your way.

Infatuation is . . .
Preoccupation with whomever makes you feel good in the moment.

Love is . . .
Seeking God to fill the void when your loved one isn’t so lovable.

Infatuation is . . .
Pursuing an ever-elusive “soul-mate” in an illegitimate attempt to feel complete.

Love is . . .
Hard work—based in faith and commitment.

Infatuations is  . . .
Effortless and involuntary—based in adrenalin and dopamine.

Love is . . .
Fed by a continual “dying-to-self” and surrender to our great God.

Infatuation is . . .
Fed by self-centeredness and grandiosity.

Love is . . .
Established by giving and receiving respect.

Infatuation is . . .
Energized by being the object of worship.

Love is . . .
Strengthened by fearful self-disclosures that pave the way to a deeper bond.

Infatuation is . . .
Weakened by fearful revelations that shatter the dream.

So, which of the two—infatuation or love—do you pursue most in your marriage? 

If you’re pursuing “infatuation” more than love, then you’re putting your marriage at risk!