Using Our Emotions as Tools for Transformation
God did not intend for us to act in our flesh without checking in with our higher reasoning centers and our spirit.
God did not intend for us to act in our flesh without checking in with our higher reasoning centers and our spirit.
Those living in addiction are alive, but they’re not LIVING! Are you? This is a harsh truth. It’s not easy to go on with life when they’re stuck fighting chronic substance use. You have to choose how you’ll spend your days and time. You’re worth living!
You are loved. In your mess, in your darkest moment, in your sin. You are loved and wanted. This episode talks about sin and our redemption. It talks about never being so far from God that He can’t reach you. Addiction is powerful, I get it, but it still doesn’t touch the power of God. So, give me a moment to explain why God loves people like you.
Every day the Lord reminds me that I am not alone because He is with me and that He is in control.
Today’s episode is a discussion of lost faith in the battle of recurrent trauma caused by addiction. Realigning our hope and heart with God and letting go can ignite our faith even though the situation doesn’t change. Living in peace through the warzone of addiction is possible when we hold on to Jesus and let go of the world.
In becoming co-dependent, we tend to lose ourselves to an addiction we never had. Breaking this cycle will allow your children to endure their consequences and release them to gain self-dependence.
This episode is a reflection back to the time just before I began my recovery. There is anger, bitterness, pain, acceptance, and resolve here. I began to confront some hard truth within myself, and it was HARD! If you’re in that place, know you are not alone.
Recovery is possible! I will never doubt that. Our minds are stronger than any addiction, even substance use. The brain can be healed by new mindsets and thought patterns.
If you are lost watching your loved one battling substance use, please take a great minute to remember 1) You’re not alone. 2) God has your back far better than anyone else 3) Peace is possible through Christ Jesus.
Our capacity to feel deeply is not an accident but a divine design.
Who left who?
Realize that Christ is the One who waits for you to yield this mess to Him.
Those living in addiction are alive, but they’re not LIVING! Are you? This is a harsh truth.
We are in the fight for our lives against addiction, and it is time to speak out and unwrap the stigma and judgment.
Whenever we feel we’re unable to escape an overwhelmingly frustrating or oppressive situation, depression has a tendency to develop.
Trigger. It’s a word we fear for far too long. But we know the consequences of addiction. So, we walk on eggshells and stay silent. We fear everything.
Navigating addiction as a family is hard stuff. Yet, families are often judged by what they do or don’t do in handling these messy situations.
This Christian momma is tired—but here sits another experience in the travels of addiction. I learned it can’t be me; I can’t save, fix, or carry the weight of an addiction I don’t have.
My heart is worn and weathered.
Yes—RECOVERY IS POSSIBLE. Yes, it is amazing. People are choosing to live every single day!
SHAME!! It paralyzed me with anxiety and took me down. Every parent I know with a loved one in addiction confronts this crushing feeling at some point. We can’t let it drown us.
The state of stress is so accepted as a way of life these days that we rarely give it much thought until it’s taken the life we love and distorted it.
Thankfully, the Chairman of my Board of Directors is the Holy Spirit.
God doesn’t turn away from those places you keep buried.
I needed to function again and not feel paralyzed by hearing the repeated stories of the incident.
Sometimes God allows an abundance of struggle because He knows that is the best path to authentic and deeper blessing.
Tough love was not an expectation to change their behavior; it helped to change my own.
Today, I took part in what is called ‘Five Minute Friday’—A writing challenge that gives you a keyword that you are to take five minutes to write on.
The Bible isn’t just a book; it’s a lifeline, rich with promises and hope.
God saves lives. Over and over, I watch Him perform miracles in the life of someone who often plays with death.
This episode talks about realizing nothing you say helps; nothing you do changes things. It reflects on that moment you begin to sink emotionally.
If you’re struggling to move out of their addiction, start with these few steps! You deserve peace and freedom, but it will take work to get there.
One day, you wake up to a child you don’t know. A person who no longer lives outside of addiction. Your reflection screams at you, “What have you done?”… Every parent with a child in addiction wonders what they did wrong.
Not one of us is ever beyond a desperate need for the ongoing grace and mercy of Jesus.
The more I stayed, the more despised I became.
Taking a moment to pause, name what we are feeling, and embrace the reality of why we feel that way.
What do the two phrases mean? Do the words matter?
Although I still had no control over the situation, I was bringing it before the One who did.
“Let Go and Let God” I never thought this would be a phrase of controversy. We use it every day in life challenges. So, why is it a problem to apply to how we approach living with a child in addiction?
It’s a lot easier to unwind when you’re not beating yourself up all the time.
We can learn from our mistakes and be better because of them.
Do we call sin, “sin,” in addiction? Are we afraid to offend? Why? People deal with sin every day, in every setting. There is no judgment here—I Promise! Just some basic insight from experience and the truth.
Learning how to live with pain.
None of us can claim that we have not been given a calling from God. The Bible tells us that all believers have a part to play in her kingdom of God. And gifts are varied. Do u know what ur spiritual gift is?
The feeling of resentment is poison to our soul. It saturates our being with false justification.
This podcast is a journey through the life of addiction from the perspective of a mother. My hope is to bring awareness to this difficult topic.
It’s important that believers know what New Ageism is referring to, and the distinct differences between that teaching and that of the God of Abraham, the God of the Bible. In this episode, Dr. Paula tackles this topic head-on, without hesitation, and with a conviction and boldness that is much-needed in these times.
I’ve learned new boundaries and how to love others where they are. I hope this can help others do the same.
What is prayer? The act of prayer is an open, willing heartfelt conversation with God, thanking Him for what He has done in my life and others around me. And daily prayer doesn’t have to be long, drawn-out, or difficult. Once I recognize and give God my gratitude, I can entirely focus on my request and petitions.
In today’s society, people reject prayer. We hear it often, “We don’t want your prayers!”
Yes! Our almighty God desires for us, His children, to embody His power and to exalt and give strength to others. Come along with Dr. Paula on this discovery of God’s power, God’s energy, and His desire for you to accept these gifts to you.
As the New Year kicks off, do you find yourself making another list of resolutions or goals? Before you start down that path, give yourself the next fifteen minutes to hear Dr. Paula’s advice on how to ensure you are successful from Day 1.
We are in the fight for our lives against addiction, and it is time to come out of the closet and speak out for those we love most.
We know that all living things have a vibrational frequency. We know that sound also has varying levels of frequency. Scientists, especially in the emerging area of healing frequency therapy, also know that thought patterns even emit a frequency. Did you know that your mood exerts its own frequency?
A living nightmare carries on another day, another month, another year.
Everyone has God-given gifts. The question is, how are you using yours to glorify Him? Can others see the fruit of your labor? Do you know what yours are? Using your gifts is not the same thing as striving to be a “perfect” person. That is an empty way of life and not one that we are called to live.
An emotional encounter in prayer, hope, faith, and truth. Recording could not stop the tears from falling. This podcast is a journey through the life of addiction from the perspective of a mother.
When your emotions are overwhelming, turn toward God and put your feelings into words.
Dr. Paula shares with listeners her experience with what she believes was Shekinah Glory during a near-death experience, along with an amazing discovery about “light” in the form of Laminin, embedded into the very structure of the cells in our bodies.
Dr. Paula brings new light to energy in God, science, manifestation, thoughts, and how they are connected! What is not always visible but always around and within us all? Energy.
It is a grief like no other. Living grief never has an opportunity to say goodbye because it is a tragedy within “active addiction.”
Follow along with Paula in the discovery of just a few examples of how detailed and magnificent our Creator’s numerical handiwork can truly be.
The good news is that saying no is a skill you can sharpen.
Narcissistic abuse is more than just harm inflicted on a person; it’s an open doorway for demonic oppression.
In this episode, Dr. Paula explores Darwin’s theory of evolution. As mainstream thinking would maintain, science supports exclusively the theory of evolution, while scripture supports the theory of a divine Creator, aka creationism. But is that all there really is to it?
Ahhh.. bitterness. Resentment we hold onto against people or situations that rob our peace. (If we allow it) It took me months to work through this round, but I’ve made it to the other side, and you will, too.
I understand the heartache of addiction in the lives it touches. It has hit my family…hard.
God created us with a desire to seek and understand him on a much deeper level. Daily, God astonishes us by his presence and ability to connect with us here on earth.
Resistance to the machine is not futile.
Have you or someone you know ever received “that phone call” from a doctor? In today’s new podcast episode, Dr. Paula shares how, at age 43, this phone call would send her on a journey to ask herself hard questions, discover God deeply, and claim her true identity in Him.
Finding yourself in a place of hopelessness and fighting for the will to carry on. Addiction is a tough road for those living it- the person struggling with substance use and the family who loves them
Our ability and willingness to set and enforce boundaries in our life can often be directly related to our self-worth.
Coming to you from her studio in North Texas, Dr. Paula McDonald records this time-sensitive message on the importance of connecting to others. In the midst of this February 2021 deep freeze ridden with power outages, water shortages, potential flooding, and more, across much of our country, Dr. Paula shares how now more than ever we truly need one another.
A look at the thinking types of the Enneagram.
Listen in as Dr. Paula McDonald walks us through the divine connection created by God to His children and all of the wondrous ways in which His designs are replicated in the physical world around us.
This episode is about the unfamiliar space between the empty nest and raising grandchildren. I reflect on the challenge of letting go and moving in a purpose I never saw coming.
God created us to work. Shocker? Well, it’s true. So are you ready to collaborate in work with the almighty? Imagine the possibilities available for you when you completely trust him…when you desire to collaborate with him.
Essential oils are the actual lifeblood of the plants from which they come. They are God’s medicine and they have a lifeforce and vibrational energy all of their own.
We don’t have to live as prisoners to what we have experienced in our past. Many people have overcome these obstacles, and I know you can, too. Freedom is yours.
Help for when you want to answer “no.”
One key principle for believers is acknowledging that every good gift and talent in you comes from Him.
These types approach the world through their gut or instincts.
What if you could unlock the secrets to an overall inner peace? How much better would you feel if you could tap into God’s perfect source of balance? Perhaps you suffer from chronic disease, pain, anxiety, fear, fatigue, or maybe you simply find yourself in a circumstance that seems unbearable at present?
We are in the fight for our lives against addiction, and it is time to come out of the closet and speak out for those we love most. For me, this has been an eye-opening experience in knowledge, faith, and ability to love through the most trying times.
There is a fine line between the idle amusements of passing distractions and our impulse compunction to remain unplugged from reality.
As we come off of “the coronavirus year” and enter 2021 there are a lot of things that you can do to boost your immune system. Incorporating the daily practices that Dr. Paula covers in this episode will prepare your body and boost its’ resistance to illness and disease!
Covert narcissists often sabotage their victims by operating in stealth, almost undetectable, undermining ways.
Have you had to change how you dealt with your loved one’s addiction and the impact it had on your life? Do you feel misunderstood in your decisions? You are not alone.
Today on Episode #24, we will explore how to continue playing and creating in life. And how creativity is its own energetic force!
I’ve discovered God’s plan is not a prescribed set of steps to follow. It’s not a linear process; there are divine delays and detours by design.
We know it’s a hard task to stand beside us, and we know it isn’t easy to continue to listen to the same stories, but we appreciate you!
How these types relate to the outside world through their feelings.
We can think nobody will understand, but God always understands.
Turning to God with the burdens we bear emotionally, releasing them to Him, and choosing joy imparted to us by the Holy Spirit, is our greatest assurance of mind, body, spirit balance.
One mother was in the misfire of a battle to save her child’s life. One moment, one experience, one question that haunts me to this day. Journey along a glimpse of addiction on one of the worst days of my life.
What if you could unlock the secrets to an overall inner peace? How much better would you feel if you could tap into God’s perfect source of balance? Perhaps you suffer from chronic disease, pain, anxiety, fear, fatigue, or maybe you simply find yourself in a circumstance that seems unbearable at present?
One mother was in the misfire of a battle to save her child’s life. One moment, one experience, one question that haunts me to this day. Journey along a glimpse of addiction on one of the worst days of my life.
Ennea is Greek for the number 9 and gram means “a drawing”. The Enneagram means a drawing with nine points.
None of us can claim that we have not been given a calling from God. The Bible tells us that all believers have a part to play in her kingdom of God. And gifts are varied. Do u know what ur spiritual gift is?
Your place might not be a sleeping forest on a damp spring morning, but today, I encourage you to go to your restful place.