Ask Don’t Assume
Effective communication combines asking for what we want and receiving with thankfulness, even if it doesn’t match our request.
Effective communication combines asking for what we want and receiving with thankfulness, even if it doesn’t match our request.
Becky Harling engages in a heartfelt conversation with Jamie Erickson, author of ‘Overwhelmed Mom.’ They explore the universal feeling of overwhelm among mothers, discussing its causes, personal experiences, and practical strategies to manage it.
If you’re feeling trapped in a cycle of uncertainty and frustration, constantly second-guessing your choices and relying solely on your ever-changing emotions to make decisions, then you are not alone!
Emotions in marriage aren’t the enemy—they’re God-given tools meant to stir your heart toward action, deeper intimacy, and meaningful connection.
Do you ever wonder if marriage can be great—not for the rare few—but for you? Today’s episode answers that question with a resounding yes.
God is faithful to you even when your spouse is not.
From their Senior Leader on down, Chris Frost and Des Belford, Pastors at The Summit Church Edmonton, have seen a shift in relational connection and openness to each other.
Learning to navigate the realities of criticism isn’t easy, but it’s absolutely necessary.
On the original closing date for selling our farmhouse, we found out the deal was cancelled. The buyers had trouble with their financing, and it was over. In that moment, I had a supernatural peace.
We were made to connect. Deeply. Zealously. Without fear.
Becky Harling engages in a heartfelt conversation with Myshel Wilkins, a recording artist and author of ‘Arise, Shine and Conquer.’ They discuss the challenges of infertility, the importance of faith during difficult times, and the transformative power of worship.
Legacy isn’t just about what you pass down—it’s about how you live today.
Whether you’re dreaming big, building hard, questioning what’s next, or leaving a legacy, this episode will help you embrace your season with grace, faith, and intentionality.
Twelve years ago, Noelle Lawson died from alcohol poisoning. Her husband, Scott, had just been trained to do CPR and was able to revive her before the ambulance arrived. Their lives have never been the same since.
Listen in as the guests talk about how they have seen the Fingerprints of God transforming their own families and how the understanding of Joy, the gladness to be with, and simple tools and skills have deepened connection at their church.
Walk with me today through Genesis 1-3 as I share how these Chapters gave me revelation about God’s significance He placed on man, our design, and heeding our husbands’ voice.
If you find yourself asking, “What am I getting out of marriage?” you’re asking the wrong question.
I’ve continued to try new ways to remind myself that my husband needs a loving touch.
In this episode of the Connected Mom Podcast, host Becky Harling welcomes Trisha Goyer, a prolific author and mother of ten, to discuss the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly during the preteen years.
When addiction is swirling around you, it’s easy to start doubting everything—including who you are.
In this episode of the Eyes on Jesus podcast, Drew and Tim share their personal testimonies, highlighting the challenges, doubts, and moments of transformation in their faith journeys.
Are you concerned with what they would think if they only knew the truth about your life? In this episode, we’re going to share with you why according to scripture you just might have that all wrong.
With the graying of divorce becoming more prominent than ever, now is the time for us to address what we want our marriage to look like after our kids have flown the nest.
In this episode, they discuss what it looks like when Elders are leading from fear. They will also talk about Elders who are motivated by love can create communities where Love, joy, and trust are fully alive.
Our soul is our emotions, feelings, and memories. “He restores my soul”. These four Psalm 23:3 words have been resting in my spirit for days now.
From the moment we find out we’re pregnant, we start thinking about our child’s needs…and all too often forget that we have real needs, too! Join us for a conversation that is sure to lighten the pressure and bring refreshment.
If your prayers are according to His will, He is ready and willing to answer them.
You can stop overthinking, find peace, and create a life where you respond with love instead of regret.
Moving is up there on a point scale, along with similar major crises such as the death of a spouse, serious illness, or divorce.
LifeGroups—also known as small groups—are one of the most powerful ways to foster genuine community and fuel spiritual growth in the church. But what makes them work so well?
When it comes to parenting, most couples focus on discipline strategies, school choices, and managing behavior. But what if one of your most powerful parenting tools isn’t a strategy at all—but your marriage itself?
In today’s episode, Kirby King shares the difficult story of finding out about her husband’s six-month-long affair when she’d been married for 34 years. You will walk away from this conversation encouraged in whatever situation you may be facing today.
Our marriages can last for decades, but it doesn’t mean the passion has to flicker and die.
Listen in as Dr. Warner talks about the 7-17-70 rule in community, and why know the stories of others are so crucial to feeling connected. Also, learn what his dream for community looks like in family and church.
Yep. We were in a cult for about 8 months. We never knew we were joining one, but evil became obvious. My hope is that our story helps others.
It’s so much easier to focus on your spouse’s sin than your own, right?
This episode is one that you want to listen to more than once! Join Becky and Money Saving Mom Expert, Crystal Paine, as they talk about money-saving tips for back-to-school supplies and more.
What happens when discipline methods fail and emotions run high? Tune in to find out how to navigate the complex world of parenting with purpose.
In this episode, we’re having an honest, “tell it like it is” conversation on the topic of nagging and complaining. And we’re going to be talking to your wife… AND you, husband! Join us if you want the truth, some understanding, validation, and perhaps a little Holy Spirit conviction.
Pamela Henkelman has an amazing story of redemption that began when her stepdad shot her mom, the bullet grazing her heart. As a result of the shooting, her entire family came to salvation in Christ.
In this episode, learn how Geoff and Cyd run together to bring wholeness and understanding to the body of Christ.
Are you worrying about the troubles in your life, thinking about what tomorrow will look like?
Drawing from the book ‘Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World’, the conversation emphasizes the need to reflect on personal feelings of offense and how they impact relationships.
We must be aware of natural predators such as resentment, unforgiveness, pride, selfishness, disdain, and disinterest.
In a distracted world filled with idols, noise, and chaos, how can we truly seek the presence of God?
Find out the good, the bad, and all the in-between stuff that we had no idea we would be facing in marriage, nor any idea how God was going to use it. Our story just might offer you the hope and encouragement you need.
Kim’s testimony is a living example demonstrating that what the enemy meant for evil, God has redeemed for good.
See how God’s fingerprints have transformed, strengthened and grown their marriages more that any of them could imagine!
It’s a common complaint from women. Kari’s answer may not find favor, yet she indicates it’s Bible-based on Titus 2:5.
Regular dates help keep the adventure and spark of excitement for married couples.
In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, the host discusses the themes of loneliness, offense, and the importance of forgiveness in relationships.
This conversation explores what the modern church can learn from the early believers—especially their devotion to prayer, radical hospitality, bold obedience to the Holy Spirit, and deep fellowship with one another.
Ever feel like you and your spouse are constantly missing each other emotionally?
Peggy Bodde is an amazing woman who overcame childhood trauma to become a successful business leader. She was adopted as a baby by a couple who abused her entire childhood and kicked her out of the house at 13 years old.
“…Life actully got a lot better when I could see him (Geoff), as he is and go, ‘Wow! You are fantastic the way God made you…” — Cyd Holsclaw
Are you packing your day so full that your home is full of strife by evening?
This episode discusses the importance of hospitality in cultivating deeper connections in a lonely world.
When things on earth were breaking down, that is the perfect time to seek heaven’s intervention.
Whether you’re walking through pain right now or walking with someone who is, this episode will encourage, equip, and challenge you to keep your eyes on Jesus through every season of life.
In this episode, we unpack the biblical command to leave and cleave (Genesis 2:24) and explore how it goes far beyond the honeymoon stage.
Carol welcomes her daughter, Elise Roper Younts, along with her husband, Wes, and his mom, Frieda to the show.
“In the last nine months or so, the atmosphere has shifted. The change hasn’t been a physically tangible thing that can be observed, but something is shifting… I’m going to be looking for that more.” — Jane Gamroth
For 15 years, we have followed these 5 principles for maintaining His order in our lives. Based on 1 Peter 5:8 (Amplified Bible), we keep the enemy from devouring us.
Praying the Word of God over our families strengthens our faith and develops patience and perseverance in us to endure our trials.
This episode encourages listeners to implement the ’15-minute rule’ to foster deeper connections and combat loneliness.
Whether you’re a man longing to reclaim purpose or a woman seeking to encourage the warrior beside you, this conversation is packed with wisdom, grit, and gospel truth.
Whether you’re facing hardship right now or just want to prepare for whatever comes your way, this episode will give you biblical insight and practical steps to storm-proof your marriage.
As a result of Henry’s relationship with Jesus, he’s become one of the most faith-filled evangelists I’ve ever encountered, always saying, “Praise the Lord” and sincerely meaning it.
Listen in as they talk about how being a part of Relational Co-Labs has changed the way they relate to God, themselves, and others.
I was never given the explanation to who Jesus is nor given the invitation to ask Him into my life. Is that you too?
Proverbs 31 was written mostly for men to describe women of character to look for in a mate.
Our goal should be to value masculinity and femininity – both were created by God and are essential to a happy marriage!
This conversation emphasizes the need for attentiveness in relationships, practical steps to improve listening skills, and the significance of dedicating time to focus on loved ones. The episode encourages listeners to implement the ’15-minute rule’ to foster deeper connections and combat loneliness.
Drew and Tim reflect on the surge of online Christian content creators—many with good intentions—but ask the hard questions: Are we being led by the Spirit, or by trends? Are we building God’s Kingdom, or simply drawing attention to ourselves?
Just like a 10-gallon bucket can only hold so much water, our hearts can only hold so many emotions before they spill over—and that overflow shows up in our marriages.
Melanie shares in this episode five tips for those who’ve lost a loved one and five tips for their support team. These are real and practical ways to get through the crushing weight of grief and also how to really help others who are in the midst of grief.
Ken and Jane Gamroth take us on there journey to relational health and give us some insights on how it has transformedand and is transforming their marriage, family, and church!
“It started with the spirit of offense, changed to a need for validation, and currently, the enemy is coming at me with being offended.”
Focusing on self-care first gives us the stamina to care for others, and with a better attitude.
The conversation focuses on the themes of envy and comparison, emphasizing the need to cheer for others rather than compare ourselves to them.
Why do so many Christians resist paying for Christian resources, conferences, books, or even consistently giving to their local church—while freely paying for secular products, subscriptions, and entertainment?
In this episode, Chris and Jamie explore what it really means to orient your life and marriage around Christ, not just in name, but in everyday action.
Melanie’s story is heartbreaking but hopeful. I know death and grief can be an uncomfortable subjects to deal with, but Melanie has so much wisdom to share with those who are either walking their own grief journey or have someone in their life who is.
Learn how being in the Co-Lab has impacted Hannah Scaringi’s life and left the Fingerprints of God in all of her relationships!
Soft answers, not HARSH WORDS.
In this episode of the Connected Mom podcast, host Becky Harling discusses the theme of loyalty as a vital component in building deeper connections in relationships.
The further we move toward Satan’s deceptions, the more people in our lives get hurt and the deeper our marriage wounds grow.
Tim and Drew have a much-needed conversation about a growing trend in modern Christianity: the temptation to be wowed by personalities rather than drawn into the presence of God.
This episode is for the one carrying the weight, wondering if anything is ever going to change. We want you to know: you are not alone, and your faithfulness matters.
“It’s a compliment that God gave us to have a strong-willed child… When they’re born, they don’t have any idea how to use it. It’s up to us to help guide it, shape it, and form it and let God use it.”
Listen in as Dr. Warner talks about the importance of building joyful social connection with elders and how healthy multigenerational community and toxic, and/or secretive multigenerational communities look very much the same but produce polar opposite results.
Have you ever ridden in a Jeep, roof top off and doors off?!! It’s the best! Mister picked me up in ours and had a blanket for me. I share this story on today’s episode and how it was a perfect example of Colossians 3:18-19 working in God’s design.
The host encourages listeners to reflect on their own behaviors and consider how they can offer more compassion instead of criticism.
If we treat each other like we are called to do in Scripture, with kindness and humility, those old romantic feelings always seem to come back.
Whatever we take to God and surrender to Him becomes an opportunity for the miraculous.
Barry’s passion is contagious as he encourages every listener to stop waiting for a title and start living the mission. You don’t need to be a pastor to be in full-time ministry—you just need to say yes to God in your everyday life.
In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when your patience runs out and how to restore wonder, faith, and trust in God’s timing.
Listen in as Molly shares her journey to faith as she worked her way out of debt and reveals how every messed-up, broken story has a purpose.
In this episode, Hannah Scaringi shares some key personal insights that have changed how she sees and relates to God, herself, and others! Learn how understanding Joy has completely transformed her life.
When BS conforms us to worldly responses, we need to do a heart seeking change and become teachable to the scriptures.