A Healthy Marriage Requires Healthy Boundaries
Oneness in marriage does not erase the personhood of either spouse.
Jennifer is passionate about seeing the Bride of Christ come into a greater place of purity and passion for Jesus and fully administrating His rule and reign in the Earth. Her mandate is to raise her children in the Glory of God and to see the Bride of Christ set ablaze. Her mission is to release the purity, truth, and beauty of God and her heartbeat is justice for the oppressed and freedom for the captive. She is also a “thriver” after years of covert narcissistic abuse. Jennifer is the Founder of Esther Company and Kingdom Wealth Creation & Strategic Solutions. Her most treasured role is being a mom to her four amazing children who reside with her in Lancaster County, PA.
Oneness in marriage does not erase the personhood of either spouse.
A narcissist will often strictly control or limit the spending ability of their victim while usually being either stingy or financially impulsive and reckless.
An abuser must have a mindset shift and a heart change for any real hope of lasting change.
As a church leader, I appeal to other pastors and leaders to be open to learning about a topic that may be new to you.
Making sense of what you are experiencing will allow you to validate the pain you have endured.
Choosing whether to stay with or leave an abusive spouse is a deeply personal decision that involves multiple factors.
God desires for you to not only live again, love again, and hope again, but to also trust again.
Marriage is meant to be a beautiful picture of Christ and the church, not a dehumanizing, oppressive prison.
The abuser demands their spouses reality and judgment be whatever they need it to be to get what they want.
Abusers live a lie. They have a public persona and they have a private reality–and the two are worlds apart.